“How man Refused to Date Me Because I Lost My Mum as a Child” – Actress Ms DSF Shares Heartbreaking Experience
Nollywood actress and media personality Dorcas Shola Fapson, also known as Ms. DSF, recently shared a poignant experience on the Bahd and Boujee Podcast, co-hosted by reality star Tolanibaj and actress Moet Abebe.
Ms. DSF recounted how a man once expressed his reluctance to date her upon learning that she had lost her mother as a child. Shockingly, he cited her upbringing in a single-parent household as a deal-breaker.
In disbelief, Ms. DSF questioned the validity of such reasoning, expressing her frustration at being judged for circumstances beyond her control. She pondered whether she could have prevented her mother’s passing and challenged the notion that her upbringing defined her worthiness as a partner.
Moet Abebe, one of the podcast hosts, shared a similar encounter, revealing that she, too, had been rejected by a man who was raised by a single parent. Despite the shared experience, Abebe questioned the validity of such reasoning, emphasizing the unfairness of being judged based on one’s family background.
Ms. DSF’s candid revelation highlights the stigma and discrimination faced by individuals who have experienced loss or come from non-traditional family structures. It underscores the importance of empathy and understanding in forming genuine connections, regardless of one’s upbringing or past experiences.